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They come and they go
01.26.05 (7:40 am)   [edit]

A few months ago my brother and his wife came to live here in Spain. They’d been planning the move for a couple of years, but I knew nothing about it until they were about to move. I thought it was a bit strange that they hadn’t talked to me about it, seeing as I’ve lived here for a while now, but decided they must have been getting advice from somewhere else. To cut a long story short, they’ve decided to go back to UK. I know they’re just “saving face” but it really got my back up to hear them slagging off this country and its people. Being a foreigner in an adopted country makes you part of a very transient community, people are coming and going all the time. It’s such a shame that almost everybody who decides to return to their country of origin takes the attitude that any blame is levelled squarely anywhere but on their own shoulders. The insult to injury is the inevitable “if you had any sense you’d do the same thing” comment. The poetic justice is that my brother left England because “there are so many foreigners there now, and they walk in without a word of English and get all the help they need from the authorities”. They are leaving Spain because the language was a problem and they felt nobody helped them. What a shame.


 


Is anybody else having trouble opening certain blogs? Every time I try to open either “Lynne” or “Billy Ryan’s” blog I get the banner and nothing else. I’ve spoken to Lynne about it and she says everything is working fine at her end. If the problem is at my end (all other web pages open as normal), can anybody suggest why it might be happening?

 


posted by: jennirae269 (reply)
post date: 01.25.05 (11:33 pm)

I haven't had any trouble with either of those....or any other for that matter. Are you using a link from your site? Sometimes they freak out and don't work right anymore, I've noticed.



posted by: badaunt (reply)
post date: 01.25.05 (11:36 pm)

They only gave it a FEW MONTHS? They left bang smack in the middle of culture shock!

(Oh, and language problem? LANGUAGE PROBLEM? Send them here!)



posted by: lynne (reply)
post date: 01.26.05 (7:32 am)

ARe you using a dial up connection? If so, it just might be taking a long time for the pages to load. I have recently reduced the number of posts I have on any given page but right now, I have a lot of images that might be bogging things down for you.




posted by: lynne (reply)
post date: 01.26.05 (7:33 am)

Reply to: lynne
In other words, try loading just one entry at a time. You can do that by going to the http://www.tblog.com/blog-friends.php page and clicking on the title of the blog entry instead of clicking on the title of the blog.



posted by: Andaloo (reply)
post date: 01.26.05 (9:38 am)

Reply to: lynne
No, I'm on a broadband connection. Just tried getting in through "friends" and the same thing happened. It can't be the pics, I open other pages with pics (lots more) without trouble. It's clearly a problem with my computer, but its really frustrating not understanding what!
I'm sure this is the last thing you want to think about...but thanks anyway.



posted by: Mimi (reply)
post date: 01.26.05 (10:15 am)

re: blame...
our society has taught MANY to shift blame for EVERYTHING that goes on...never accepting personal responsibility! xoxox



posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 01.27.05 (1:16 pm)

too bad, they didn't really give it a chance. But , for some folks, the grass is always greener on the other side.



posted by: billlyryan (reply)
post date: 01.27.05 (2:39 pm)

If I moved to Spain Friend, I don't think I would EVER move. I'd complain because I was so scared of my own insecurities but I do that here, now. I just would never leave Spain. It's SPAIN FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!!!!
oh and I miss you by the way....



posted by: Andaloo (reply)
post date: 01.27.05 (10:28 pm)

Reply to: Mimi
I agree totally. It's a sad state of affairs when we can't see our mistakes and learn from them.



posted by: Andaloo (reply)
post date: 01.27.05 (10:29 pm)

Reply to: NurseNancy
It is a shame isn't it. I think Badaunt is right when she says they left during culture shock.



posted by: Andaloo (reply)
post date: 01.27.05 (10:33 pm)

Reply to: billlyryan
We've got to get you down here to do "The Grand Tour".

Any ideas why I can't open your blog? The problem must be at this end, but for some reason your's and Lynnes won't open.



posted by: billlyryan (reply)
post date: 01.28.05 (8:13 am)

Reply to: Andaloo
Would it be alright to make Spain my next destination????? I plan on going somewhere else this year after Australia!
Dunno why you can't open mine??? I can't post anything new for some reason, maybe that has something to do with it?




posted by: Andaloo (reply)
post date: 01.28.05 (12:18 pm)

Reply to: billlyryan
Australia? Are you going to visit who I think?

Send me your email address by tmail, I've had to change mine from the one you have.



posted by: billlyryan (reply)
post date: 01.28.05 (2:30 pm)

Reply to: Andaloo
I'm answering you by tmail right now!!!


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