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Think about it
08.13.05 (5:48 am)   [edit]

Taken from "Boomster" -


I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian


I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.

I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.

I am one of the lucky ones, I guess. I survived the attack that left me in a coma for three weeks, and in another year I will probably be able to walk again.

I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.

We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.

I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me.

I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male.

I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men.

I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that.



I am the man who died when the paramedics stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transsexual.

I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I didn’t have to always deal with society hating me.

I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don't believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.

I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love.


Re-post this if you believe homophobia is wrong.

 


posted by: billlyryan (reply)
post date: 08.13.05 (5:58 am)

Wow that made me sad. And lonely.



posted by: juniperflux (reply)
post date: 08.14.05 (11:14 pm)

Labels are always dangerous because they allow us to think we know a person without having to look into their eyes, hear their voice, feel their touch or care what's happened to them.

This is a subject that is close to my heart, and I could go on and on... but you've managed to say things much better than I could.

Thanks for posting this.

j



posted by: fcali (reply)
post date: 08.16.05 (5:09 am)

This one angers me immensely: 'I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.'

This occupies two current issues: 'marriage' (or whatever you'd choose to call it) and extension of benefits to same-sex partners, or at least recognition of such relationships absent of anything 'legal.'

Maybe it's just my growing up in a progressive area of the world, but I've always thought such recognitions and benefits should exist without discussion or debate. That it's simply what any civilized and fair culture would provide. That any of these is even a concern to anyone simply astounds me. I just can't get wrap my brain around these even being issues of concern and debate. THAT'S what we've got to make fun of and, perhaps, it's to such narrowminded people whom restrictions and prejudices should be directed publicly.

-- Raymond (aka F'cali -- not signed in cuz Tblog moves so freakin' slowly -- see? I'm on my 3rd attempt now to 'Post It!' -- keeps timing out. Stinkin' Tblog!!!! &$*$$##@!!)



posted by: Beyourself (reply)
post date: 08.18.05 (1:38 pm)

Greetings! Your post is necessary, insightful, poignant. It fosters understanding, clarifies mis-conceptions, speaks to the heart, and fills the soul with pathos for those who walk among us who may be different than we are, or think we are. Thank you.



posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 08.21.05 (4:26 am)

in my previous position ( before I moved ) I always let partners in to stay with their loved ones. I had several dedicated AIDs beds and had a reclining chair in each room where partners or family members could be comfortable. Homophobia is wrong, as is racism, or any type predjudice. People are people.



posted by: SusanofPudlin (reply)
post date: 08.22.05 (10:00 am)

Yes.



posted by: newbie (reply)
post date: 08.25.05 (10:05 am)

No.



posted by: Debs (reply)
post date: 08.31.05 (1:33 am)

Hi there 'Loops

Hurrah I have a couple of quiet minutes in which to try and catch up here on t-bloggin's.

This post sure caught my eye!

Somebody very close to me recently confided that he is gay. What upset me was the fact that he felt it had to be kept as some big secret through fear of not being accepted as the normal human being that he is. I was devastated when he APOLOGISED to me for telling me this...

all the best 'Loops, take care

Debs x



posted by: Verlaine (reply)
post date: 09.07.05 (1:43 pm)

I am the man who is baffled by homophobia.

Thanks for the post.

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